EQUALS.

Just a thought...We, as women, expect way too much from men.  

We're always saying what we want in men. Whether it be physical, spiritual, or mental wants. We always always have our opinions, wants, and needs.  But, what we don't realize is that what we want, is what we need to be. For example, if you want a good man with high standards with the same religion as you..then you MUST meet your expectations for him. Therefore...Good mormon man, you must be a good mormon woman.  You want him to be thoughtful, you must be thoughtful.  Because, the truth of the matter is, opposites rarely attract.  We must be what he is looking for you, too.  And if we are, when we meet Mr. Right, it will all just align perfectly.  I've never experienced this, but I know that's how it works. It just does.